WARNING! This post might make you blush and/or get excited.
Are you getting tired of trying the same old positions? If you’ve been married more than a couple years, you probably need to change things up a bit, or a lot. You don’t have to be super flexible or crazy adventurous to try the positions we’ve listed below, you just need an open mind and a willing spouse. You can also try changing positions when you have sex which will make things last longer and build up an even bigger orgasm.
Face to Face
Couple sits opposite of each other and then the women slides into the mans lap and sits on top of him. Then the woman joins her legs behind him and he puts his feet together to provide a kind of cradle for the woman. Then the woman rocks on him. This is great for couples wanting to make eye contact during sex. Also try this in the bathtub.
Woman on Top
A favorite amongst men and woman. Get the man to lay down on the bed with his legs out in front of him. Have the woman climb on top like a cowgirl and let him penetrate the woman. Have the woman lean back and hold onto his ankles or knees as he lifts them up. Men love this because they’re visual and can see everything. Woman enjoy this because it’s great clitoral stimulation, which can lead to a quicker orgasm.
Edge of Heaven
The man sits on the edge of the bed, with his legs down on the floor. Then the woman shuffles into his lap and onto him, with her legs resting on the bed, while he holds the woman’s hands to stop her from tipping backwards. Now you can start moving as fast or as slowly as you want, but this position gives you deep penetration and allows the man to take the lead.
This is sort of a cross between doggy-style and the classic Woman-On-Top position. Have the man lie flat on the bed with his legs hanging over the edge. The woman climbs on top of her man but face away from him and have her lean forward with her arms, resting on his knees or thighs. Angle his penis downwards slightly and let him enter the woman. Then rock back and forth for an incredible, G-spot-hitting sensation.
The man sits on the bed, with his legs outstretched. Then the woman climbs on top of him, and wrap her legs round behind his back, while he pulls her towards him. Then the woman moves up and down at a speed to suit both of you. This is a great one if you both enjoy lots of kissing during sex.
Come on, you can do it. Don’t allow your fears to get in the way. Your goal this week should be to try at least one new sex position. The only way to a better sex life is to try things out with your spouse and keep in mind that married sex is the best sex! Sex is a gift to marriage….enjoy the gift.
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